Hi, and thank you so much for being willing to be a partner for someone else looking to get clean and find clarity. It takes a lot of courage to be willing to face what you've been running from, and it also takes a generous and open heart to be willing to face it with someone else that you've never met, and hold that space for healing. So great job! You should be very proud of yourself. You'll be randomly matched with someone and when you are, you will each receive an email with a copy of their application, and your application. One of you will be assigned to initiate the conversation. Here's how the three questions will factor in. The first question, color, is how you see yourself. So if you enjoy blue because it's calming, natural, and goes good with everything - this is how you see yourself? The second question, animal, is your ideal partner. So if you like hummingbirds because they're tiny, ferocious, and always show up when you're feeling down - this says something about the type of person you're attracted to. The third question, type of body of water is your sexuality. So if you like oceans because they're endless, powerful, and the sound it makes - well! That's how you feel about sex.
With your new partner, analyze your answers together. Does it make sense? Totally? Not really? Do you feel nervous about this pen-pal situation? What about doing a meditation for 40 days? Talk as openly as you can about why you're here and how you're feeling about it. No one's going to narc you out, and the main thing here is connection . Everything else is just details.
Again, thank you so much for contributing to the healing of the world. You are so valuable, so important, and you are helping someone else just by being here. Lots of love. Everest